sisterly stripes

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I was an only child once. For a very short period of time, 2 1/2 years to be exact, I was the only grandchild on both sides AND the only child. I don’t remember it really, but I’m sure it was heavenly bliss.

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Then my parents decided to have another baby and I was no longer the only child. And like every only child turned older sibling, I had to start sharing everything.  Sometimes it wasn’t sharing the same item as much as it was having to match my little sister. As in matching overalls, matching flowery dresses, matching bows as big as our heads, etc. We matched for almost every occasion that could possibly exist. 1st day of school, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, last day of school and everything in between. We also had to have matching toys, although that was more because I didn’t want to share and she wanted whatever I had, so therefor we had doubles of everything. You would have thought we were twins.

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She drove me absolutely crazy 99% of the time growing up. And the older we got the less I wanted to share or have matching ANYTHINGs. But somewhere around college that all changed. It was almost as if I woke up one day and just decided she wasn’t all that bad after all… that I not only loved her, but she was kind of my bff. That’s when the sharing and the matching started all over again, but not because mom was making us, but because we wanted to share and match. Funny how that works, huh?

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So here we are, 27 & almost 25, and having the same clothing in our closets isn’t the end of the world. Actually, when I see her post pictures of something cute it makes me want to borrow it or go out and buy it. A lot of times we accidentally buy the same things without ever discussing it with the other person first…in which case we text each other “GET OUTTA MY HEAD!” Ha!

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dress//target, sandals// (c/o) by therapy, love necklace//laurenly, bracelets//laurenly, knuckle rings//heart swoon

(click HERE see Kaleigh’s outfit details & read her sisterly story!)

This Sisterly photo shoot actually came about by accident on a day last week when we were in North Carolina and both got dressed wearing striped dresses.

Great minds think alike!

(linking up with the pleated poppybecause shanna said so)

moving on and moving north

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When I moved to California almost 4 years ago (say what?!! my how time zooms by!) I never in a million years truly imagined being here for very long. I think I was just in love and a little in lala land about the whole thing. But here I am 4 years later, married & living in Orange County, CA.

I have mentioned many many times my lack of love for the OC. It has been very good to me, and very good to us (me & the hubby). But it lacks a lot of things we want out of the place that we live. It has been a wonderful for the time. But it has been a VERY long time coming for us to get the heck out.

Back in March I mentioned, here, that we were considering the possibility of moving to Austin, TX. In our minds it seemed like the perfect compromise. I desperately wanted to move home to Oklahoma (the hubby not so crazy about the idea) and the hubby desperately didn’t want to leave California, but if he had to he thought Austin sounded like as good a place as any. It would be closer to my family, but still have a very California feel. Well God had much different plans. (It was hard to not mention all of this when we returned from our road trip, but it just wasn’t the right time to share.) We both loved Austin! It was funky, very different from the rest of Texas, and filled with great food & music! But something just wasn’t quite right when we imagined the two of us living there permanently. We felt discouraged, like we were back to zero. So we prayed and prayed. And God brought us back to a conversation we had that at one time seemed like it could never work, like a fantasy.

Due to the nature of our very flexible jobs, we can work from anywhere. So after much prayer and a lot of late night discussions. We have decided that we are going to live in 2 places. We are going to split our time and live part of the year in California and part of the year in Oklahoma.  We feel beyond blessed & over the moon excited about this new journey and adventure!

As you well know, we currently live in Orange County, CA and aren’t huge fans.  So we are moving to the Central Coast of California…to San Luis Obispo. And we are moving in 2 weeks. 2 WEEKS PEOPLE!! We just signed a lease on an adorable little house filled with lots of charm that is within walking distance to downtown that we have never even seen in person. (My mother-in-law saw it for us and sent tons of pics & videos!)

So the next two weeks are looking extremely busy with purging and packing and saying our goodbyes to the very few close friends we have here in Orange County and heading off on a new adventure! We will be there until end of Spring, early Summer, of next year and then we will head to Oklahoma. Eeeeek!!

I know this may sound like the craziest idea ever. And maybe it is. But for us it is the perfect time to try it. And it will give both of us the opportunity to live where the other one really wants to be. So the Orange County door may be closing, but two others are opening! I am so looking forward to all that God has in store for us during this time!

Get ready for lots of fun house decorating posts!! xo

my blog has a mind of its own.

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I have mentioned several times that when I first started this blog I never imagined it morphing itself into something that focuses so much on style & fashion. But here we are, months later, and that is exactly what this blog has become.

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I have worked in the fashion industry, both on the retail and wholesale side, for what seems like forever and ever. So I guess it only makes sense that I would find myself focusing my blog on what I know and love.

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I would never claim to know or be ‘high fashion’, and I don’t always try every new fashion trend (I leave that up to my sister, Kaleigh!). But I love finding and curating cute new things, which is why I have so much fun with my usual Friday posts… “Favorite Finds!” I have also found myself truly loving to share my style and outfits with you on this blog!!

I am so very thankful for my experiences and exposure to the fashion industry. Back in college when I needed my first real job, and had ZERO experience, a local boutique saw something in me and gave me an opportunity I will never forget. I have been very blessed.

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So for as long as I love sharing my style and for as long as you love to see me share it you will see fashion, style & tons of cute things on Shabby Loves Chic.

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mint dress// (c/o) so kate, bracelets//target, heels//dsw

>>I am OBSESSED with this mint dress…I love the little bow detail! It was the most perfect dress to wear to my cousins wedding rehearsal dinner last weekend and I got loads of complements!!

a chevron maxi to swoon over & so kate so you

I was over the moon excited when the beautiful Kate asked me to join in with a group of lovely ladies styling & featuring items from her adorable online shop, So Kate, each month. Not only is Kate a lifestyle blogger, but she also has an online shop that is filled with fashion steals you don’t want to miss out on!

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Here is a little blurb about this new monthly feature, ‘So Kate, So You’…

“It’s no secret that I love fashion, but I also love that everyone has their own eye for fashion. I enjoy reading other fashion blogs and seeing their interpretations of a style, trend, outfit, etc. That is the premise for our new monthly feature So Kate So You. We want to offer you fashion inspiration from a variety of our favorite style bloggers and showcase some of our favorite So Kate items.” -Kate

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So here are the details…
When… the 2nd Wednesday of each month
Who…visit So Kate blog as well as our other featured contributors: Cella Jane, Shabby Loves Chic, and Sincerely Truly Scrumptious. We will also feature rotating guest contributors* each month.
What…Each contributing blog will feature the same So Kate item in their very own way.
Win!!!…We will offer a give-away with each monthly feature. This will give you the opportunity to win the So Kate featured item.

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This month each of us were sent this perfect little chevron maxi skirt. It was so much fun to see how differently each of us styled this exact same skirt. Go check out how Rebecca, Alyssa, & Kate styled theirs!
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tank//zara, skirt// (c/o) so kate, sandals// max & olivias, arrow necklace// (c/o) so kate, bracelets//target
I love the bright, fun colors of this skirt and how perfectly light weight it is!!
WIN this adorable skirt! Enter using the Rafflecopter below…GOOD LUCK! :)

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Thank you so much to everyone who linked up with us last week for What She Wears! You all looked fabulous in your maxi dresses & skirts! If you missed it click here to see what outfit I styled & to check out the other hosts.

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It was hard to choose a favorite. I loved this leopard skirt Shio wore! And Kate styled an adorable black skirt here! But my favorite was this pleated black maxi skirt + ombre denim top worn by the beautiful Rebecca of Cella Jane.

favorite what she wears Cella JaneI am swooning over this combination!

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And can we just talk about how PERFECT this statement necklace is?! I love a good statement necklace to finish off an outfit!

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Rebecca is such a beauty, has fabulous style & an adorable blog that you all need to check out!

Thank you again everyone for linking up! If you missed it please join us next month…drum roll please….our linkup theme next month is NEON! I can’t wait to see what bright neon cuteness you style and linkup with us! xo

 

a people hangover

It has been a non-stop whirlwind of a couple of days around here. A flight to North Carolina and wedding festivity after wedding festivity. For the most part I think I’m a pretty social, outgoing person. However, after days of non-stopness, lots of talking and being around tons of people, I do hit a wall.

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My mom read an article recently where this feeling of exhaustion after being around a lot of people non-stop was referred to as a ‘people hangover’ (you can read the article here!). I decided that was the PERFECT way to describe what I am feeling after the last couple of days, a people hangover.

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It’s not that I don’t enjoy being around lots of people & having a good time. It’s just that after a good amount of that I find myself needing 3 cups of coffee in the morning and a dr.pepper in hand for the rest of the day in order to survive. And then when I lay down to try to go to sleep at night I find myself getting back up to take a tylenol pm because my mind won’t shut off. You know when you just lay there with eyes that are so tired, but a mind that is going a million miles an hour? Yep, that’s what happens. A people hangover.

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top//target, jeans//h&m, jewelry//laurenly, sandals// (c/o) therapy

So I spent all day yesterday relaxing and enjoying time with my family, nursing my people hangover. It was lovely. Can you relate to this? Do you ever get worn out after being around lots & lots of people?

a few favorite finds

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olive green oversized top - I’m kind of obsessed with this!
personalized rings – I need everything from this etsy shop, but this ring is the first thing calling my name!
mint handbag – I love this! Color, size & all!
cali necklace - Riffraff is an adorable online shop that I have come to love! I’m thinking I need this necklace.
sam edelman petty boot - You all know how much I love these boots, and now they are on sale at Nordstrom! Yahoo!
pretty white lace dress - perfectly summertime

Happy Friday lovelies!! xo

what she wears linkup // maxi style

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It’s time for our second What She Wears linkup! Yay! This time around we decided to style a maxi dress or skirt. These little long flowy skirts and dresses are a favorite, easy, go-to outfit.

If you missed last month and aren’t sure what the heck I’m blabbering on about then let me just fill you in…

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What She Wears is a fun little linkup hosted by myself & 5 other lovely bloggers. (We just added Brandi from Run Style Run to this months mix!!) It is a great way to share how YOU wear your style. A different theme is announced each month and the linkup will go live the first tuesday of every month. AAAANNNNDD here’s the fun part: we will each show our favorite linked up look on our blogs! So fun right?

So like I mentioned before, for the month of June we decided to share our favorite maxi dress or skirt looks!

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I LOVE maxi skirts and wear them often!! When we decided on maxi for the June What She Wears theme I thought that I should style a maxi dress this time around. They aren’t always my first choice when purchasing/wearing a dress, so I thought this would challenge me to find one I like or actually wear one that has been sitting in my closet.

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I am sort of picky with long dresses/skirts so this is one of the reasons that I tend to not buy maxi dresses. I absolutely hate trying one on that hits right above my ankles or mid-shin. It drives me insane. I like my skirts and dresses to almost drag the ground…barely showing my shoes/sandals, if at all! And seeing that I’m not the shortest gal in the world, finding long enough dresses for my picky taste is somewhat difficult. Also, maxi dresses can at times be less than flattering on my already curvy hips area.

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what she wears // maxi style // shabbyloveschic

jacket // soooo old from express, dress//dillards, ankle boots// steve madden, floral crown// donnaleota

In the end, I decided to go with one that has been sitting in my closet. I fell in love with this dress when I purchased it because of the pretty all over lace & because of how stinkin’ comfy it is. I have only worn it a couple of times, so thought this would be a perfect time to pull it out and attempt to style it differently than I have in the past. Country chic?! Haha

 Now it is YOUR turn. Link up your favorite maxi look below. The only rules are that you follow each of us (you can follow me via bloglovin or email!) and link back to one of us in your post. You can also put our cute little button on your sidebar! In a week we will pick our favorite looks and showcase them on our blogs. Don’t forget to add the #whatshewears when posting on Instagram and Twitter so we can all see your looks!

 shabby loves chic